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Will giving your man what he wants gets you what you want? The answer is yes! Most of the challenges that people face in marriage these days are caused by lack of compatibility in many aspects of marital union. And one of the best ways to solve these problems is to learn how to manage the many areas of incompatibility. Some marriage problems could be better solved between the two of you rather than seeking the advice of a third party, be it a professional marriage counselor or a friend. This is so because, if you are able to identify your individual problem or areas of incompatibility, the best thing is to ask yourself why it is difficult for you to solve the problem

Most women who think they have problems in their marriages do not really have any problem that is not surmountable, they are the real cause of the challenges they are having. This may occur when a woman is full of ego either because of educational qualification i.e. may be she has a higher degree than the husband or other achievements than the husband. When a woman is in a situation like this, all she need do is to be able to manage the situation effectively. Otherwise, she may not be submissive or give the husband the respect due to him

I want women to note that no man on Earth is an animal or not capable of being a loving husband, but a lot rest with the woman of the house. Let us meditate on this question “who on earth will hate being in a comfortable situation or environment”? the answer is nobody! Women should also note that nobody can know their husband more than they do, not even members of their family.

Now, the big advice:

First, get your husband to your side. How would you do this? You may ask! Yes, be submissive to him, ask him what he thinks is the cause of all the troubles in the house, tell him you are ready to do whatever he wants you to do so that everybody will be one big family, tell him what is happening to your relationship is not what you want, tell him you are ready to cooperate with him in whichever way he thinks two of you can move your relationship forward.

But, you have to ensure you carry out this task under the most conducive atmosphere, i.e when your husband is in his best mood. You wouldn’t expect me to tell you when his best mood is.

When you have your husband by your side, every other thing will fall into shape. You’ll be surprised at the level of positive changes that would manifest in your relationship. You’ll subsequently make your man powerless in your hands and have him treat you like a queen, and give you everything your heart desires.

Try it, all these things works

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Most newly married often think marriage relationship is a joy ride. They will start out sweet and full of love, care and attention for each other. But life after the honeymoon doesn’t always go smooth as most couples might have envisaged. Such that, when reality of marital life hit them like thunder, it will shake the foundation of the relationship. Most of these problems come in the area of Incompatibility (Family, Finance, Sex, Real Intimacy, Individual Expectation e.t.c.) An unconfirmed statistics has it that half of all marriages in America result in divorce before the seventh anniversary. What do we do to solve these problems and avoid being part of the statistics? All these and other factors are analyzed below:

Most people, especially women go into marriage having so many unrealistic expectations, this is usually so because they compare their relationship with other relationships by mere looking at those other relationships from the outside, erroneously thinking they are fault free. So, when they started having problem, they would think it’s not normal. It’s often said that women expect far too much from their partner, which lead them to always want to eat their cake and having it in marriage. The way out of this is for you to know that it is not abnormal for couples to have arguments or misunderstanding, what is most important is how they handle these problems when they occur.

Absence of intimacy in a new marriage is one of the most contributing factors to the breakdown of marital relationship. Apart from the adjustment to marital life in general, careers, money and the stress of every day life often combine together to wring intimacy out of marriage, allowing the feelings of resentment and anger to build gradually as the couple grows further and further apart. To avoid this ugly trend in your relationship, create time for each other, each and every day, even if it’s only few minutes to listen and really hear your spouse. By doing so, you’ll be maintaining the level of trust and communication that’s needed for keeping intimacy an important part of your romance.

Extended and blended family problem is another challenge that may be faced by newly married couples. Each of the couple have a way of doing things they are used to from their various family background, which people from their family especially their parents may still want them to maintain. But the onus is on them to decide between themselves how to run their own new and young family to prevent undue interference from extended family members. Another important issue the couple should handle with high level of diplomacy is that of blended family, i.e if a child is involved from either or both of them from an earlier relationship. It is very important that they device a workable means of bringing all children together in one big happy family.

Finance is another problem that may bring about argument and problem for newly married, especially when the wife has the habit of trying to view in her mind how the husband should spend his money, forgetting that the husband has responsibilities in his extended family too. Women should handle this aspect with diplomacy and advice their husband with caution on this area of finance (Especially when they don’t have joint account)

While it is not a doubtful fact that there is no marriage without conflicts and problems, what is most important is how the couples handle their differences and challenges as they come. Always remember the purpose of your union from the onset, focus on the most important aspect of your marital relationship devotion and dedication to the wellbeing of each other.

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Are you in a lovelorn situation? Are you living with loneliness as your only true companion? Evenings spent “killing time” instead of celebrating life? Spending Holidays alone? Valentine’s Day without a lover? Time spent wondering… what is wrong with me? My heart is filled with love to give. My soul filled with passion. I am worthy of love! Where is that one special man? The one who will give me the love I need. The one who will give me the love I deserve. Where can my soul mate be? Why have we not found each other?

Is the deck really stacked against me? Is it true that happiness is something you only see at the movies… but impossible to find in real life?

And for those of you in relationships… are you still living in loneliness… or even worse?

Are you getting the love you want and need… a deep and powerful love?

Are you getting the kind of attention you want and deserve… a loving and kind attention?

Are you getting the kind of romance that will heal the deepest wounds and give you the most satisfying love you’ve ever known and desire?

For most women in relationships today, the answer is no.

It is a sad fact that more than one-out-of-two marriages in existence today will break up in the next few years. The breakup statistics are even higher for relationships!

And… for many couples that do manage to stay together… they just end up going through the motions. Maybe it’s for the sake of the kids. Maybe it’s for the sake of convenience. Maybe fear of the unknown. Thus, leaving together like mere room mates.

Infidelity… hurt… frustration… and despair becoming the rule instead of the exception.

Having Sex without love. But that’s not how it was meant to be between a man and a woman…

And This Is Not How It Has To Be!

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Levels of Love

Most of us have experienced love blindness. We either think we love someone or do not realize until it is too late that we actually did love someone. You do not have to be blinded by love. You have the power to recognize it, but you must use smart decision-making skills to avoid making fatal relationship mistakes. In this section, work on waking up your awareness so that you will act in “knowing.” The first step is to become familiar with the stages of relationships and the corresponding levels of love that you or your partner will most likely experience.

Relationship Avoidance Stage

“I do not desire love”

Goal: to prepare yourself for love

Characterized by non-interest

Meeting Stage

“I am open to finding love”

Goal: to prospect for the possibility of love in others

Characterized by anticipation

Dating Stage

“I hope to find love”

Goal: to pre-qualify for a potential partner

Characterized by uncertainty

(These three stages represent being single and the importance of using the “Screen-out” process.)

Breaking Up Stage

“I no longer have love with this person”

Goal: to let go of the person/love

Characterized by disappointment/relief

(Breaking up is a transitional stage.)

Exclusivity Stage

“I think this is love”

Goal: to further qualify the person to see if she/he might be a good match

Characterized by excitement

Commitment Stage

“I know this is love”

Goal: to close the deal

Characterized by confidence

Keeping the Love You Find Stage

“I want to keep this love”

Goal: to preserve the love you have found

Characterized by continuous commitment

(These three stages represent being involved and the importance of using the “Screen-in” process.)

The key is to consciously place yourself in each stage. For example, if you decide you want to be in the “dating stage” then be fully present and make a true effort to make yourself available for dating. If, however, you find that your heart isn’t in it, and that you would rather avoid relationships, then you need to stop and consciously put yourself back in that stage. This will help you to stay clear on what you want and enable you to honestly communicate to others “where you are at.” Each level and stage of the relationship is a transition and involves psychological and emotional energy. As you progress through each level, you will no doubt experience excitement and anxiety, hope and fear, arousal and dis-arousal, certainty and uncertainty, along with a myriad of other feelings. You will need to work hard at balancing the messages that you are receiving from both your head and your heart to most accurately interpret the incoming, overwhelming information—it is very easy! to be misled.

***This article is adapted from the book, Get Smart! About Modern Romantic Relationships: Your Personal Guide to Finding Right and Real Love by Michelle L. Casto